Inopisa Dambudziko Here?
Iwe uri kunze kwekufamba kana kumhanya uye mberi kwako munzira ndiyo murume. Sezvaunoswedera, unoona kuti ari kuratidza maitiro ake. Munhu anofambika kana anofamba anofanirwa kuita sei kana murume akaita zvinonyadzisa kwavari? Kune mafirimu ane ngozi here?
Ndechipi Kusiyana Pakati peNudist uye An Exhibitionist?
"VaNudists uye mafirimu maitiro akasiyana zvachose evanhu," anodaro Cory Silverberg, nyanzvi yehutano.
"Vanhu vanozviratidza sevanorist / nudist vanonakidzwa nekushandisa nguva vasina zvipfeko.VaNudist havana hanya kune vamwe vachivaona vasina uye uye (vachitaura kakawanda) havasi kuzomutswa nazvo Vanongoda kupedza nguva nevamwe vanobvumirana kuona ivo vasina kupfeka.
"Chimwe chimiro / chiratidziro mumwe munhu ari kuve asina kupfeka munzvimbo yepachena apo vanhu vasingabvumirwi kuaona vanogona kuzviona.Vamwe maflasher / mafirimu vanosimudzirwa neizvi, vamwe vanoona kuti mufambiro unoderedza kushushikana kana kuti unovapa pfungwa Kudzora asi chinangwa chekuratidzira chiratidzo chiri kuonekwa nenzira yavasingafaniri kuva. "
Exhibitionist Motivations
"Vanhu vanofarira kukurudzira iwe, nenzira imwecheteyo vanhu vose vanopfekedza-kana kuti kuderedza-kufadza.Vamwe vanhu vanoda kufadza vamwe sevakanaka, vakachengeteka, uye vakadzikama, asi vamwe vanoda kufadza sechinhu chinotyisa, chinonakidza, kana chinotyisa. , kugadzirisa mafungiro akaipa kune nani kupfuura kusingafungi zvachose, "anodaro nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Stephen Hart, Ph.D.
"Zvimwe zvinopisa zvinokonzerwa nechimwe chimiro chepfungwa yepfungwa inozivikanwa se'paraphilia'-mumamiriro ekumira, 'exhibitionism.' Izvi zvinoreva kuti vane simba rakasimba, rinoramba riripo, uye rakasarudzwa rekuita zvepabonde rinomutsa kuti vazviratidze ivo pachavo.Iizvoizvo, vanowana kugutsikana kupfuura kuita izvi kupfuura kunyatsoita zvepabonde nemumwe munhu (icho chikamu chechimwe chinokonzera chirwere chepfungwa).
Kune vanhu vane zviratidzo, zvinomutsa zvinowanzobva kune zvinotyisa kana zvimwe zvinoshamisa, kunyange vamwe vangave vachitarisira kuti avo vanenge vachishungurudzwa vachamutswa zvepabonde. "
Vari Kuratidza Kuvhiringidza Here?
Dr. Hart anoti, "Iko kukanganisa kukuru kurega kupenya sechinhu chinokanganisa.Zvimwe mazhenje-angave kana kwete anotambura nemuenzaniso wekuratidzira-anoitawo mune imwe nzira yakaipa, kusvika kune uye kusanganisira kurwisa zvepabonde. inowedzera kumanikidzira mabasa akadai sekubatwa chibharo. "
Mukadzi Anofanira Kuita Sei Paanotarisana Nechechi?
"Pasi pepamusoro: Kana uchitaridzirwa, edza kusiya mamiriro ako nekukurumidza uye wakadzikama sezvaunogona, usina kumupa zvaanenge achida.Gara uchifamba-kure.Kana iwe ukaita, kumupa ziso rakanyanyisa, rondedzera kana kuti kumunyadzisa, kana kumudana kuti anoshaya, vobva wamuudza kuti uri kudana 911. Zvino itaidza 911 nokukurumidza, "anodaro Dr. Hart.
"Usaramba uchinge wakakomberedzwa, swedera, kana kuti uzvidzivirire kusingagadzirwe.Iyo iri kutsvaga dambudziko.Ipapo kana mhepo inosvika kwauri, kuchemera rubatsiro, uye kumhanyira kunzvimbo yakachengeteka.Kana akaswedera pedyo, zvirokwazvo kurwisa zvakasimba sezvaunogona- Iwe unofanira kufunga kuti uri kurwisana nehupenyu hwako.Kana waenda, tumira 911 pakarepo kana yakachengeteka kuita saizvozvo. "
Mutauri wemutauro wemuviri Patti Wood anokurudzira kuti, "Vari kutsvaga kutarisa uye vanoda kumira kwakasimba." Chengetedza muviri wako wose, tsoka, torso uye musoro wakatendeuka uye edza kuisa kupa chero simba rakagadzikana pamagariro ake. tsananguro kuitira kuti flasher inobatwa. "
Pamela Kulbarsh, RN MSW, uye Mutungamiri weMapurisa Emergency Response Team, anopa zano rokuti, "Kana ukabatwa, uye iwe hauna simba zvakakwana kuti urwise zvakakosha, kubvisa kubatwa, kuzvizora iwe pachako, nezvimwewo. Izvi zvinowanzowedzera kufungidzira kwemukurwisa."
Chii Chinofanira Kuyaruka Kana Mwana Kana Akatarisana Nechechi?
"Mhinduro yako yekutanga inofanira kuva yekudanidzira 'Moto' kutora pfungwa kune mamiriro ezvinhu iyo kazhinji chinhu chekupedzisira munhu anokwanisa kurwisa anoda.
Iwe unofanirwawo kuitora semamiriro ekumanikidzwa uye uzviise kunze uko pane kumirira kuti uone kana chimwe chinhu chichiwedzera. Vakadzi vanowanzomirira kwenguva yakareba kuti vatore chiito, sekumhanya; isu tinovadzidzisa zviri nani kuti tidzivirire zvakachengeteka, "anodaro Dallas Jessup, nyanzvi yezvokuchengetedza zvekuyaruka iyo inoratidzwa muhupenyu hwakachengeteka Just Yell Fire .
Ita Purogiramu Yakanaka Pamapurisa
Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Stephanie S. Smith, Ph.D., inoti, "Chero ani zvake anoita zvekuita zvisingazivikanwi anofanira kuonekwa sekutyisidzira Mapurisa anofanira kunyatsoziviswa nekupiwa tsanangudzo yemunhu. Kuratidza zviratidzo zvinowanikwa kana munhu akapfekedzwa, saka mapurisa anogona kuwana munhu. Hazvisi nyore kuti mazhenje aite chete kamwe chete, naizvozvo kana mapurisa ane tsanangudzo yakanaka, vanogona kukwanisa kumisa munhu asati afambira mberi kuita zvechisimba. "
Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzakakurudzira kushandisa serofoni kamera kutora mufananidzo wemutadzi, zvichida kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yakachengeteka. "Nguva dzose sidzai 911. Shingairira kuti kutevedza mitemo kuitevera pane zviitiko, vaudze kana iwe uchifanira. Dzivisa chero nzira ipi zvayo isina kumboonekwa yakachengeteka nemapurisa," anodaro Pamela Kulbarsh.
Sources:
Firestone P, Kingston DA, Wexler A, Bradford JM. "Kuenderera Kwenguva refu Kwevatsananguri: Masayenzi, Phallometric, uye Maitiro Anokuvadza." J Am Acad Psychiatry Mutemo . 2006; 34 (3): 349-59.
Cory Silverberg, Stephen Hart, Ph.D., Stephanie S. Smith, Ph.D., Pamela Kulbarsh, RN MSW, Patti Wood naDallas Jessup. Email inobvunzurudza. June 2009